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Speaking of Making Threesomes Work


Simon Sheppard, QSyndicate.com

Who among us hasn't at least fantasized about getting it on with two guys at once? Amazing permutations and combinations are possible: a cock in each hand; someone sucking you while you blow somebody else; being penetrated from both ends. Maybe you and a buddy fucking an eager bottomboy at the same time, or you being the lucky recipient of all that attention...and more.

"Some of the hottest sex I ever had," says one three-way enthusiast, "was with these two guys who were boyfriends. One of them was a hot man with an accommodating butt, and his partner and I managed to screw him simultaneously. Kind of acrobatic, but it worked. I'm not sure I'm still limber enough to get away with that kind of thing, though."

Physical exertions aside, three-ways can be fraught with other difficulties, too. It's fairly obvious: tripods can be stable structures, but only if all three legs are the same length, and rather rare is the three-way where all attractions are truly equal.

There's no magic wand, erect or otherwise, that you can wave to make a trio work out, but there are ways to keep that three-way energy hot and flowing. As with any sort of sexual encounter, a certain amount of sensitivity, a devil-may-care attitude, and a balls-out love of lust will go far.

Even so, the him-or-him balancing act can get a bit shaky. Try your best. Remember, you're there to give pleasure to both the other guys involved, and to be pleasured by them both, as well. It's probable that you'll find Boy A hotter than Boy B (or vice versa), but that doesn't mean you should leave the less-favored fuckbuddy out in the cold while you and Mister Hottie go at it.

In such a situation, you can hone a skill that will stand you in good stead, not only in three-ways, but in group sex of whatever configuration: Look for the hot stuff in each of your partners. Figure out what's sexy about him. And then make love to that. It is, yes, possible to find something sexy about a whole range of men. Not just "your type," not just someone who's "good enough for you." Not only the archetypal hunk, the smooth twink, the hairy Daddy, or whoever you think of as Mr. Dreamboat. If you're playing with two guys and one of them seems, well, hotter than the other, it won't compromise any great principle if you treat them both as sexbait. (And remember, you may not appeal equally to both of them, either.)

Be flexible. No, not the yoga type of flexible that allows you to tuck your feet behind your head when you're getting boned – though that's nice, too. Mentally flexible. The successful three-way is an exercise in generosity, openness, and, yes, horniness. If you're reluctant to discover anything new about yourself – or your boyfriend, if you're involved with someone – you should probably think twice before bringing in a third. Whenever two or more hard dicks are involved, there are bound to be a few surprises, and the intricacies of the three-way can lead to all sorts of interesting discoveries. That is, in fact, one of the things that makes all kinds of sex such great, rewarding fun; without a bit of the unexpected, you might as well just lock yourself in the bathroom and jerk off to the photos in Hot Studs Monthly.

So let go of your preconceptions. Drop your expectations (as well as your jeans) at the door. Relax. It's just a matter of the golden rule, with gonads. So go do unto others – two of 'em at a time.

Simon Sheppard is the author of Kinkorama: Dispatches from the Front Lines of Perversion


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